This is involved in our learning of almost all techniques that we work and work to achieve that final point of perfection.
It doesn't come it doesn't come until one day it happens. What is the reason for that?
It is not that we have practiced it so often that its suddenly becomes perfect. It is much more subtle than that. What happens is that we've practiced so often that we find out that we can't do it and it happens the moment you know you can't do it.
When you reach a certain point of despair. When you know you are the one weird child who will never be able to swim. At that moment you are swimming. Because the desperation and total inability to do it at all has brought you to a point which we might call don't care.
Accept it and you'll be good at it.
Then the things happens because you've really discovered that it was afterall an illusion
– Alan Watts